Ask Qul - Marriage - Nikkah - maher and dowry

Pearl of Wisdom

'I complained to Abu al-Hasan [al-Kazim] (AS) about a son of mine. He said, 'Do not beat him, but rather ignore him [i.e. depriving him of your company], but not for too long.?

Author Unknown

Bihar al-Anwar, v. 104, p. 99, no. 74

Latest Answers

Sexual Ethics & Morals

# 824 - looking for someone in edda mu

Salaat / Prayers

# 709 - Passing wind from the rear

Business / Investment

# 808 - Masjid or Imam Bargah

Sexual Ethics & Morals

# 807 - penetration during period

# 806 - Female masturbation

Divorce / Talaq

# 798 - Divorce

Miscellaneous

# 797 - Kiss

# 792 - hidden buried treasure

Interfaith Dialogue

# 781 - Jesus death

Fasting / Sawm / Roza

# 776 - Husbands permissn

Receive Qul Updates

Ask Qul - QA

Question : #684

Category: Marriage - Nikkah

Subject:	maher and dowry
Question:	what's the difference between maher and dowry? and with maher when is the best time to be paid to the bride? in my culture the condition of maher to be paid is encase of a divorce ...if the couple don't divorce it doesn't have to be paid. is that right of wrong?
Answer:	Mahr is the arabic term for dowry. This mahr is issued at the time of reciting the marriage contract, and is as a gift from the groom to the bride. This mahr is unconditionally the brides and up to her discretion on what is done with it.

If you require further clarification on this answer, please use the feature to respond to the stated answer.