Pearl of Wisdom

in his letter to Malik al-Ashtar when he appointed him governor of Egypt, said, 'Surely the virtuous are known by the reputation that Allah circulates for them through the tongues of His creatures. Therefore, the best collection with you should be the collection of good deeds. So control your passions and deprive your heart from doing what is not lawful for you, because depriving the heart means detaining it just half way between what it likes and dislikes.'

Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib [as]
Nahj al-Baldgha, Letter 53

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Question : #773 Category: Sexual Ethics & Morals
Subject: Pornography
Question: Salam aleikum dear brother

If one discovers that their spouse is regularly watching pornography and sexually explicit images of knaked ladies, is this a form of adultery? AS this is what counts as a breach of marital trust?

Does it depend if the spouse is watching for lust or otherwise? if it does not lead to mastubation or other haram is it then considered not adultery?

nabi Isa as has said " anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has committed adultery in his heart". Is this saying authentic? Do we have any Hadith from our Prophet sawas?

If now on finding this material , I go and try and look into my spouse laptop to check is this a form of suspiscion, spying? But doing with the intention that any material found is evidence and it may hurt my family marriage so doing it with this intention for protection , preparation ,
if spouse is not lying and then leading to further haram? Is this okay?

If it is a regular habit is it an addiction? What actions are recommended for this?

Jak for your time.
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