Pearl of Wisdom

'A man once came and told ?Ali b. al-Husayn (AS) [i.e. Imam Zayn al-Abidin], 'Verily x has said that you are astray and that you are an innovator!' So ?Ali b. al-Husayn (AS) said to him, 'Neither have you observed the right of the man you sat with by transmitting to us what he spoke about, nor have you observed my right by informing me of something about my brother which I would not have known! ... Beware of backbiting for verily it is the food of the dogs of Hell, and know that whoever frequently talks about people's faults, the frequency of his backbiting is a witness [to the fact] that he only finds faults in others according to the extent present in himself.'

Imam Ja'far ibn Muhammad al-Sadiq [as]
Ibid. p. 246, no. 8

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Question : #889 Category: Marriage - Nikkah
Subject: Advice
Question: Salaam,

I hope this message is reaches you in the best of health and iman.

I'm emailing you in hopes of receiving some advice about marriage.

Being the oldest in my family and 18 my parents do not really know how to go about finding a potential spouse for me. I do not have anyone particular in mind, however, I have told my parents what I am looking for; essentially I would like to marry someone studying in the hawza. My family does practice Islam regularly but I sometimes fear that they may not be as religious as they should be. I currently live in America but I plan to live in Iran or Bahrain when I get married/have my own family inshAllah. I'm only mentioning this because I'm not sure what kind of family someone studying in the hawza is expecting to marry into. I just feel that this next step in my life will help me become closer to Allah(swt) and possibly the same benefits for my family as well. I guess what I'm asking is if there is a certain approach my family and I should be taking because none of us are familiar with the marriage process in America.

I appreciate any advice you could give me. Also if there is anything that I could clarify please let me know. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Eltemase Dua
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