Ask Qul - Family Issues - Long engagement period

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Question : #1284

Subject:	Long engagement period
Question:	Salam. I wanted to ask that I've been engaged for three years now to my cousin who lives in a different country than I. I had the vibe that he wasn't willing to go through with marrying me and now my suspicions are confirmed that he's interested elsewhere. I told my parents and they asked his parents but they denied all those things. There had been no progress from their side to ask for marriage, making different excuses every year that he hasn't completed his education. He doesn't have a job yet etc and unless he has a job we can't marry immigration will be difficult. My parents trust them too much cause they are family (he's my cousin) to doubt them but i am pretty confused.now that i know he didn't wnat to begin with in first place i don't know what to do. Can you please guide me? JazakAllah. Iltamas e dua
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